Finding Joy in the Miles: My Marathon Journey
Running marathons has been a defining part of my life—but it hasn’t been a straight path. From running my very first race with my dad, to taking time off during my 30s, to rediscovering the joy of running with a community, each chapter has shaped the runner I am today.
How It All Started
My marathon journey began thanks to my dad. When he ran his first marathon at age 49, I thought, if he can do it, so can I. The next year, we ran the Chicago Marathon together, and soon my brother joined us too. I ran Chicago eight times between 2000 and 2008—it was the only race I did during that period and became a big part of my 20s.
Eventually, though, I hit burnout. Between raising kids and wanting a break, I stepped away from marathons in my 30s. Still, I kept running for fitness, because movement has always been part of who I am.
At 40, the marathon bug came back. In 2019, I ran the Fox Valley Marathon, and while I finished, I knew I wanted to do better. That’s when I realized that training with others could bring back the motivation and fun I was missing.
Finding Community with Alpine Runners
In 2020, I joined the Alpine Runners for their New Year’s run—and I was hooked immediately. Running with this group has given me both accountability and joy. The miles fly by when I’m with them, and I’ve found real camaraderie. These runs became more than just workouts; they became my favorite way to spend time with friends.
A Week in Training
My marathon training balances structure and flexibility:
- Monday: Easy run with strides
- Tuesday: Speedwork
- Wednesday: Easy run
- Thursday: Smaller speed session or easy run
- Friday: Rest
- Saturday: Long run
- Sunday: Recovery run or cross-training
Each week, I average 50–60 miles, with two strength sessions mixed in. I also allow myself grace—life happens, and I’ve learned that consistency over time matters more than one perfect week.
Recovery and Balance
Sleep is my secret weapon. It fuels performance just as much as miles or nutrition. I also try to minimize stress by staying flexible with training. One bad day doesn’t define race day outcomes.
Nutrition-wise, I keep things simple: bananas, graham crackers, oatmeal before runs; gels and hydration along the way; and plenty of protein after. Eggs are a post-run favorite. I also supplement with collagen and creatine, and when I’m treating myself, I love an iced coffee with soy milk and maple syrup.
Race Week and Race Day
The last 2½ weeks before race day, I taper—cutting down mileage while keeping in a touch of speedwork. My carb-loading is relaxed; sushi, pizza, or spaghetti the night before works fine for me.
The day before, I usually do a light shakeout run, stay relaxed, and do a little visualization. On race morning, I stick with oatmeal and coffee, dynamic stretches, and music.
When racing, I’m steady-paced. Negative splits aren’t my strength, so instead, I focus on not starting too fast and reminding myself: the race doesn’t truly begin until mile 20.
When things get tough, my mantra is: Run the mile you’re in. Sometimes I focus on my surroundings, sometimes I focus inward—but I always adapt.
Memorable Moments & Lessons Learned
One of my proudest moments was the Carmel Marathon in 2024, where I hit a PR and ran with a supportive group of Alpine Runners. The energy and environment just clicked.
On the flip side, the Chicago Marathon that same year reminded me what doesn’t work for me—big crowds and loud environments overwhelm me. That race reaffirmed that I thrive in smaller, quieter races where I can find my rhythm.
Celebrations and Traditions
After finishing a marathon, I keep it simple: shower, food, rest. Later, I like to celebrate with my husband over a beer and a Reuben sandwich with fries. It’s the perfect way to close out the journey.
Advice for New Marathoners
For anyone training for their first marathon:
- Enjoy the process—the race itself is just the icing on the cake.
- Be consistent—just keep showing up.
And remember, running any distance well takes dedication and time. The marathon may carry a lot of hype, but every step counts, no matter the distance.
Final Thoughts
Running has taught me flexibility, resilience, and how important community can be. Each race is part of the larger journey, filled with lessons, setbacks, victories, and joy. For me, marathoning isn’t just about finishing—it’s about the process, the people, and the memories along the way.